Worried about toddler's violent behavior...? - barricade toy
I have a daughter 21 months I am increasingly worried. It seems too violent tendencies in anger or frustration to show. At first I thought it was a step that has just passed his discipline appropriate to show you what is not acceptable. But I'm not so sure and paranoid mother is really starting to make a mistake.
Here are some examples:
If you want your cup of juice and not when he invites them to her arms and everything that you take at one time scourge.
If your sister (10 months), something that he wants to go shove beat bite, or.
If they go crazy if you throw your body and try to headbutt or they will recover their weapons and try to press the whole time to see the face of one type of reaction.
And moments ago, I needed the toilet so I had her and her sister in the living toys and the door must be set. She was excited that I BarricadesR, which took a book and threw it at the head of his sister.
I am really very worried for her. It is assumed, and how little we know about his biological family, there's little story is not so nice. Am I right to worry, and what steps I should other than a coherent discipline to do?
Sunday, January 17, 2010
Barricade Toy Worried About Toddler's Violent Behavior...?
4 comments:
Show a little discipline! At this moment, as you said, he pulls his only concern was a "reaction". Introduction to the consequences and penalties, and do not hesitate to take the punishment, if he does something wrong. Let him know that such behavior is not tolerated and will not be pressed by a child! Hope this helps.
I wish I could say that this is a temporary phase.
However, depending on the behavior, which is shown, the more you want better ways to do against the apparent increase in aggressive behavior struggle.
My 22 months has tantrums in the past two months. But not to this extent. We can also reason and the use of waiting periods (and other disciplines, the incidence and severity of tantrums) to reduce it.
I strongly encourage that if you can find help for parents (either a class for parents, social workers or even your pediatrician to find) in order to determine how to address this negative behavior.
His first task is to keep your child safe, then, if necessary, place the child 21 months in a park when you leave the room.
Meanwhile, work on your behavior in this regard. Model good behavior when playing with dolls or Barbies, and in situations where negotiation or cooperation. For example, want - Barbie # 1 with the toys to play with Barbie # 2 game ....... One could say: "Please, can play with this toy?" Barbie and the other says: "I play with him now, but you can play with me if you want the first Barbie, said:" Thanks to a kind is you. "
You have with your child how to behave as they do not come easily to her and she needs you to teach good behavior for their model.
This should be fixed now, as my husband) (second marriage, problems with anger, and the two children of my approach tends to throw things in anger - broke a chair to eat, a kick in the door of garage, a hole in the wall of the room .. ...... and adolescents wereChildhood, no longer young. It is a learned behavior and must be strong and vigilant and make sure that your girl looks good, friendly, cooperative behavior.
When you do these things, and I hit say NO! Have all the time. You'll learn. Likewise, if he does something well, praise and reward. You'll learn.
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